Avoid Men, German Police Association Chief Advises Women

Dirk Peglow, the head of the Federal Association of German Detectives (BDK), has ignited discussion by recommending that women steer clear of relationships with men to minimize risk. His assertion, though bold, is grounded in recent data highlighting alarming trends in gender-based violence. The comment, made during a TV interview, has sparked a national conversation in Germany about safety and societal norms.

Rising Rates of Sexual Offenses

Peglow cited statistics showing an 8.5% surge in cases of rape, sexual assault, and severe sexual offenses in 2024. These figures include incidents leading to death, emphasizing the gravity of the situation. When questioned by ZDF host Dunja Hayali, he advised,

“Better not get into a relationship with a man.”

He further explained,

“If you do, the risk is much higher of becoming a victim of psychological or physical violence.”

Clarifying the Statement

Later, in an interview with the Bild newspaper, Peglow softened his stance. He acknowledged that his remark was an exaggeration, stating it was not intended as a direct command.

“My statement was obviously an exaggeration. It was not meant as advice to be taken literally,”

he clarified. “The overwhelming majority of men are not violent and are not criminals.”

Threats and Public Reaction

ZDF’s Hayali shared that both she and Peglow faced threats after the interview.

“Now there are men who do not criticize the rise in violence against women but instead express violent fantasies and threats of violence against my interview partner and me,”

she noted. The controversy extends beyond individual comments, as 2025 crime statistics have drawn attention for their high rate of offenses by foreigners, a trend experts caution should be interpreted carefully.

Overall Crime Trends

Despite the uptick in sexual crimes, Germany recorded a 4.4% decrease in total criminal offenses in 2025. This contrast has fueled debate, with some questioning whether the data accurately reflects the severity of gender-specific violence. The discussion underscores broader concerns about safety, societal attitudes, and the role of statistics in shaping public perception.