Harry says children should be an ‘upgrade’ of their parents

Australia visit highlights dual focus on mental health and sport

The Duke of Sussex merged his interests in mental health advocacy and sports during his second day in Australia. He shared insights about his journey as a father, emphasizing the evolving nature of parenting. In a casual setting with the Western Bulldogs AFL team, Harry demonstrated his enthusiasm for the game that holds cultural significance in Melbourne.

Meghan’s absence and royal transition

Prince Harry’s wife, Meghan, was absent from the event and has no planned public engagements on Wednesday. A spokesperson for the Sussexes did not comment on her schedule. The couple, no longer representing the monarchy, is balancing visits to charitable organizations with personal ventures, including Meghan’s exploration of expanding her As Ever brand in Australia.

Report on fathers’ mental health

Harry participated in the launch of a study by Movember, focusing on the mental well-being of fathers with young children. After greeting the crowd with a “G’day everyone” and acknowledging the Bulldogs’ strong season start, he discussed his own experiences post-parenting. His remarks referenced his father, King Charles III, and highlighted the generational shift in fatherhood.

“The world has changed so much that parenting can’t be the same as before,” he stated. “Our kids are like upgrades. It doesn’t mean I was worse than my dad or that my children are better than me. It’s just how things are now.”

Harry stressed that even the best parenting practices leave room for growth. He encouraged fathers to seek support when needed, countering the stigma around mental health struggles. “Talking about it isn’t a weakness—it’s strength,” he argued. “If I stay quiet, what message does that send?”

Insights from Movember’s research

Dr. Zac Seidler, Movember’s Global Director of Research, praised Harry’s involvement. “His passion for this issue is clear,” Seidler noted. “He shared genuine stories, including those from his wife and therapist.” The report revealed that 20% of fathers feel isolated after becoming parents, while 60% were not asked about their well-being in the year following childbirth.

“Our findings show that most men want to parent differently than their fathers did,” Seidler added. “Harry’s message captures this major shift in how we view fatherhood today.”

Appo highlights Indigenous perspectives

Nathan Appo, the first Indigenous Australian on Movember’s global board, noted Harry’s use of his platform to support global causes. “He’s helping empower people and drive meaningful change,” Appo said. He also linked broader challenges faced by First Nations communities to the legacy of British colonialism, a history tied to the Duke’s ancestors over 250 years ago.

“As you meet Indigenous communities worldwide, understanding their struggles and how colonialism affects health is vital,” Appo explained. “Harry uses his influence to build awareness and push for better policies.”

Other attendees included Lachlan Gillespie and John Pearce, the founders of The Wiggles. Gillespie emphasized Harry’s role in addressing men’s health. “It’s important to see someone like him discussing these topics,” he said. “The Wiggles have focused on children for 35 years, but this is about supporting fathers too.”